
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstained support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"

I hope you will do....
6 comments:
i am touched
good touch but may be a one side of the reality. What about value of Islam in this case?
I agree with shamshair about values of islam but I think it all depends upon the male whatever relation i.e father, brother, son, husband that how he handels his relation and restrict them on islam.
A wife can dance for his husband in covered area where no NA MEHRAM can see him there is no harm in it and islam do not stops but ... as we are doing in our nation is totally wrong.
It all depends upon man.
Its a very well expressed piece...!
i cant speak good english thats why my comments in Roman:
likhnay walay ne bohat acha likhaa....no doubt bohat sari batain tasveer ka sahi RUKHH bhi hain....lekin kia aik larki aik auraat mairi tarhaan bhaag kar buss main charay-gi? kia mairi tarhaan aik larki couch k darwazay per danndaa pakar kar 45 mints ka safar karaygi? kia aik larki mairi tarhaan raat ko 12 bajay tak office main rukay gi? kia aik larki mairi tarhaan BOSS ki GALIAN sunay gi? or likhnay walay tu sub kuch HARAAA HRAAA (GREEN)dikhaayaa ha, lekin kia larki mairi tarhaan khambooon par charh kar kaam karaygi?..........nahi inn sab kamooo ko woo nahi karaygi because......u know very well, or ye ju kuch main ne likha ha ye bohat thooora ha, i think ittna kafi hoga...
typical jealous personalities comment on women who is actually their mother, sister, daughter, wife, colleague. they think every rights given to men by islam then what is different in islam and other religions????????
So sorry, poor men play game with less knowledge about Islam and indirectly try to make fool their Great Creator. nowadays every girl make her space by struggle and her inelligent and she do all jobs like boarding onrunning bus, stay in office late night (newspaper magazines), etc.
ohhhhhhhh yes not a suicide bomber, not murderer of a woldly famous political woman leader, not antriguing partner at large
try to digest the reality, otherwise time detoriate all prouds ............
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