While a man was polishing his new car,
his 4 yr old son picked up a stone
and scratched lines on the side of the car.
In anger, the man took the child's hand
and hit it many times not realizing
he was using a wrench.
At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers
due to multiple fractures.
When the child saw his father.....
with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?'
The man was so hurt and speechless;
he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times.
Devastated by his own actions..... .
sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;
the child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
The next day that man committed suicide. . .
Anger and Love have no limits;
choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely
life & remember this:
Things are to be used and people are to be loved.
The problem in today's world is
that people are used while things are loved.
Let's try always to keep this thought in mind:
Things are to be used,
People are to be loved.
Watch your thoughts; they become words.
Watch your words; they become actions.
Watch your actions; they become habits.
Watch your habits; they become character;
Watch your character; it becomes your destiny
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Showing posts with label Love. Show all posts
Adopt 40 Things in Life
Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice prayer, meditation and yoga.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.
Personality
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Society
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
Life
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not the least
40. Please Forward this to everyone you care about
Ahmed Faraz - A Symbol of Romance
By Yousaf Alamgirian
Ahmed Faraz, who left this mortal world on Monday the 25th August,
2008 was born in Nowshera in 1931. Ahmad Faraz initially had a passion
to join Pakistan Air Force which he couldn't, but through out his life
he flew higher and higher due to his god gifted poetic skills. He was
a man full of feelings. He started expressing his feelings in the
shape of poetry while studying in 10th class. He got an opportunity to
meet literary people in his early age as his father; Agha Burq was
also a well known poet. He received masters' degrees in Persian and
Urdu literature from the University of Peshawar.
Faraz started his career as a scriptwriter with Radio Pakistan. He had
been an academician and was director general of the Academy of
Letters. He had been a proud recipient of Adamjee Award,
Sitara-e-Imtiaz of Government of Pakistan, Dr Iqbal Award from the
Academy of Letters, Honorary Life Fellowship of the Academy of
Letters, an Honorary Doctorate in Literature from the University of
Karachi.
Faraz occupied a unique place among the bouquet of poets of the modern
era, with his remarkable style of writing. Faraz was truly one of the
major poets of the modern-day Urdu poetry. His poetry was both
traditional and broadminded. Ahmed Faraz was a modern poet who gave a
new trend to the Urdu poetry. His poetry had been translated into many
languages of the world.Collections of his poetry are quite popular and
some of them had won major literary awards.
Ahmed Faraz was fully capable of the art to convert emotions of love
into thought and word to create romantic poetry. Obligated with mixed
signals of love within one's heart and trying to make it complete and
finding the steps necessary to understand the duality of the two is a
difficult process. When this happens though, there is beauty to be
heard from romantic poetry. Faraz and his poetry both knew the fact
that one's emotions can become tangible and pierce the heart of
another, bringing two souls together that otherwise may have never
been joined in each other's love. Hence poetry such as Faraz's can
play pivotal role in bringing the hearts closer and closer.
His first collection of poems, "Tanha Tanha" was published in 1958
while he was a student and became well known among poets and critics.
In 1966, his second book, "Dard Ashoob" made him well known to those
who were working for a progressive socio-economic system. He also
wrote plays for Radio Pakistan and PTV. These were published in 1972
under the title "Mere Khawab Reza Reza".
He received many national and international awards. He won the
'Adamjee Award' in 1966. His third collection of poems, "Nayaft",
(Unattainable) was declared the best book of the year in 1970. He
received the 'Dhanak Award ' for the most popular national poet in
1972. Also in Pakistan, he won the 'Abasin Award for literature', the
'J.N. Tata Award for Peace and Human Rights', and the 'Naqoosh Award
for Literature' (1992-1993). The international awards he achieved
include the 'Firaq Award' (India, 1982) and the 'International Urdu
Award' (Canada, 1991).
His works include ten volumes of poems and a collection of plays in
addition to articles and interviews published both nationally and
internationally. Other collections of his works include Janaan Janaan
(1976), Be Awaz Gali Koochoon Mein (1982), Nabeena Shehr Mein Aaina
(1984), Sab Awazeen Meri Hain (1985), Pas Andaz Mosam (1989), Bodluk
(a play in verse, 1994), and Peman. His works were published in four
volumes by the University of Acain, U.A.E in 1987 with the title of
Assasa.
Ahmed Faraz's services to Urdu language have no parallel, making him a
legend and a symbol for being an upright fearless character that would
stand up to even the most ruthless totalitarians. Faraz had been
sadistic poet par excellence whose poetry was marked by sweetness and
lyricism with a quality of grace, a tremulous sensitivity, and an
ineffable beauty about human relationships that has timeless appeal.
The creator of some of the most popular verses, both political and
literary, Faraz had always been an activist for democracy and rule of
law and was even jailed by certain rulers.
Ahmed Faraz, who left this mortal world on Monday the 25th August,
2008 was born in Nowshera in 1931. Ahmad Faraz initially had a passion
to join Pakistan Air Force which he couldn't, but through out his life
he flew higher and higher due to his god gifted poetic skills. He was
a man full of feelings. He started expressing his feelings in the
shape of poetry while studying in 10th class. He got an opportunity to
meet literary people in his early age as his father; Agha Burq was
also a well known poet. He received masters' degrees in Persian and
Urdu literature from the University of Peshawar.
Faraz started his career as a scriptwriter with Radio Pakistan. He had
been an academician and was director general of the Academy of
Letters. He had been a proud recipient of Adamjee Award,
Sitara-e-Imtiaz of Government of Pakistan, Dr Iqbal Award from the
Academy of Letters, Honorary Life Fellowship of the Academy of
Letters, an Honorary Doctorate in Literature from the University of
Karachi.
Faraz occupied a unique place among the bouquet of poets of the modern
era, with his remarkable style of writing. Faraz was truly one of the
major poets of the modern-day Urdu poetry. His poetry was both
traditional and broadminded. Ahmed Faraz was a modern poet who gave a
new trend to the Urdu poetry. His poetry had been translated into many
languages of the world.Collections of his poetry are quite popular and
some of them had won major literary awards.
Ahmed Faraz was fully capable of the art to convert emotions of love
into thought and word to create romantic poetry. Obligated with mixed
signals of love within one's heart and trying to make it complete and
finding the steps necessary to understand the duality of the two is a
difficult process. When this happens though, there is beauty to be
heard from romantic poetry. Faraz and his poetry both knew the fact
that one's emotions can become tangible and pierce the heart of
another, bringing two souls together that otherwise may have never
been joined in each other's love. Hence poetry such as Faraz's can
play pivotal role in bringing the hearts closer and closer.
His first collection of poems, "Tanha Tanha" was published in 1958
while he was a student and became well known among poets and critics.
In 1966, his second book, "Dard Ashoob" made him well known to those
who were working for a progressive socio-economic system. He also
wrote plays for Radio Pakistan and PTV. These were published in 1972
under the title "Mere Khawab Reza Reza".
He received many national and international awards. He won the
'Adamjee Award' in 1966. His third collection of poems, "Nayaft",
(Unattainable) was declared the best book of the year in 1970. He
received the 'Dhanak Award ' for the most popular national poet in
1972. Also in Pakistan, he won the 'Abasin Award for literature', the
'J.N. Tata Award for Peace and Human Rights', and the 'Naqoosh Award
for Literature' (1992-1993). The international awards he achieved
include the 'Firaq Award' (India, 1982) and the 'International Urdu
Award' (Canada, 1991).
His works include ten volumes of poems and a collection of plays in
addition to articles and interviews published both nationally and
internationally. Other collections of his works include Janaan Janaan
(1976), Be Awaz Gali Koochoon Mein (1982), Nabeena Shehr Mein Aaina
(1984), Sab Awazeen Meri Hain (1985), Pas Andaz Mosam (1989), Bodluk
(a play in verse, 1994), and Peman. His works were published in four
volumes by the University of Acain, U.A.E in 1987 with the title of
Assasa.
Ahmed Faraz's services to Urdu language have no parallel, making him a
legend and a symbol for being an upright fearless character that would
stand up to even the most ruthless totalitarians. Faraz had been
sadistic poet par excellence whose poetry was marked by sweetness and
lyricism with a quality of grace, a tremulous sensitivity, and an
ineffable beauty about human relationships that has timeless appeal.
The creator of some of the most popular verses, both political and
literary, Faraz had always been an activist for democracy and rule of
law and was even jailed by certain rulers.
Faraz was considered a symbol of romance in Urdu Poetry. He at many a
times admitted that "Mera mijaz shuru se hi Aashiqana tha". And by the
grace of Allah almighty he always stood by his words.
His poems, like those of Faiz and Sahir Ludhianvi, were equally
popular with common readers and scholars. Full of sorrow and pain,
most of them have social and political diction. He firmly believed in
the philosophy of the progressive movement.
The passion filled poetry of Ahmed Faraz familiarizes human thoughts
and emotions intimately with a different world, expressing love in a
truthful way. Romantic Faraz and his poetry build an allusion of the
world distorted into the shape of human emotions.
One of his famous Ghazal is given below.
Suna hai laug ussay aankh bhar ke dekhtey hain,
So uss k shehr main kuch din theher k dekhtey hain
Suna hai rabt hai uss ko kharaab haalo'n se,
So apney aap ko barbaad ker ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai dard ki gaahak hai chashm-e-naaz uski,
So hum bhi uss ki gali se guzar k dekhtey hain..
Suna hai usko bhi hai sher-o-shaiyrii se shughaf,
So hum bhi mau'jzay apney hunar ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai bolay to baaton se phool jhartey hain,
Ye baat hai to chalo baat ker ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai raat ussey chaand takta rehta hai,
Sitaarey baam-e-falak se utar ke dekhtey hain..
Suna hai din ko usay titliaa'n sataati hain,
Suna hai raat ko jugnoo theher ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai hashr hain uss ki ghazal si aankhain,
Suna hai uss ko hiran dasht bhar ke dekhtey hain.
Siyaah chashm to dekhay hain per na aisay bhi,
K uss ko surma farosh aah bhar ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai uss ke labo'n se gulaab jaltey hain,
So hum bahaar pe ilzaam dhar ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai aaina tamsaal hai jabee'n uski,
Jo saada dil hain ussay ban sanwar ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai jab se hamaail hain uss ki gardan main,
Mizaaj aur hi la'al-o-gohar ke dekhtey hain.
Suna hai chashm-e-tasawwar se dasht-e-imkaa'n mein,
Palang zaaviye uss ki kamar ke dekhtey hain
Suna hai uss k badan ki taraash aysii hai,
Ke phool apni qaba'ain kutar ke dekhtey hain
Wo sar-o-qad hai magar be-gul-e-muraad nahi,
Ke us shajar pe shagoofey samar ke dekhtey hain.
Nazar uthey to ye samjho k deen-o-dil to gaye,
So rehrawaan-e-tamanna bhi dar ke dekhtey hain..
Rukay to gardishain uss ka tawaaf kerti hain,
Chaley to uss ko zamaaney theher ke dekhtey hain
Kahaniyaa'n hi sahi,sab mubaalghey hi sahi,
Agar woh khawaab hai,ta'abeer ker ke dekhtey hain
Kisay naseeb ke be-pairhan ussay dekhey,
Kabhi kabhaar,dar-o-deewaar ghar ke dekhtey hain.
Ab uske shehr mein tehrain k kooch ker jaayin,
Faraaz! aao sitaarey safar ke dekhtey hain....!
Faraz's poetry paved the way for emergence of new feelings of love,
distress, dejection and a hope at the same time. Romantic Faraz and
his poetry marked the way for allowances for free thinking to flourish
in an age where reserved and conventional social and political
thinking prevails. Romantic poetry of Faraz seems like entering into
one's soul with its massive force.
Although Faraz is no more in this world, still he would be remembered
for his great literary contributions. Faraz was one and only and has
left behind a big vacuum in the field of Urdu poetry. His fans
belonging from all age groups will miss him a lot. May Allah bless his
departed soul, Ameen.